Proverbs 8 depicts a young lady with a heart for hospitality. She also loves to teach. She lives with her sister Prudence. Miss Wisdom is building and furnishing her house, setting her table, going to much trouble, and then running out to the intersection to invite guests. She calls the simple. She calls the fools. She calls the ignorant. I did something similar when my family went to Pioneer Courthouse Square in Portland to pass out blankets and Bibles to the homeless men and women this February. Temperature was just above freezing. A friend and I accompanied Mrs. Vandermeer, going up and down streets, asking loiterers if they know someone who needs a blanket, coat, or something hot to drink. Telling them it's over at the Square. This is what Miss Wisdom does. Where is this table she's set? That's the beauty of it -- it's set every morning at 6:30 in my dining room. The Bibles are there every morning. Who are these simpletons Miss Wisdom wants to entice? Me and you.
God has a message for me and you. The problem is, we don't know to look hard for it. That's why Miss Wisdom, aka the Holy Spirit, keeps pounding the streets, and why our dads continue to get the Bibles out each morning. Do you ever get the feeling that what you're reading doesn't apply to you? Or burn inside when your sister sweetly asked how you were going to personally apply the verse you picked out? Well, there's good news on the second count. It's just you and God this time, and he's got all the time in the world to help you come up with an application. As to the first, there are several reasons the scripture might seem dry.
1. You're not really paying attention when it's not your turn to read. Your seven-year-old sister is taking ten seconds to sound out the third word in a 32 word paragraph; your other sister pinches you for covering up her page so she couldn't give out the word, take over the paragraph, or skip the names; you're looking up a cross-reference; your brother kicked your sister under the table.
2. You've been reading over the verses too fast. Sure you participated in Bible time, but you already saw these verses last year, and the part about living by the spirit and your flesh being because of sin still is about as enlightening as the motherboard to the old computer your brother dismantled last month.
3. You have all kinds of distracting thoughts. If you get right down to it, what you're imagining is sinful, but you don't know how to deal with it other than superimposing a cross, biting your tongue, and reminding yourself that "in Christ" you really aren't like that. In fact, you've gotten very good at ignoring that voice that says you should confess it to your parents and ask them to pray for you -- after all, that voice is just another emotion. You should practice self-control and purpose not to be swayed by it.
I know about all these reasons, because they have been true of me in recent years, weeks, and hours. They may be true of you as well. Examine closely what Miss Wisdom says, because these words were inspired by God. She tells us to choose her instruction over choice silver. To search for it as for hidden treasure. She also tells us how:
"Blessed is the man who listens to me,
watching daily at my doors,
waiting at my doorway." (Prov. 8:34)
Many my age have "friends" who write very cool and stimulating blogs. We subscribe to these, so we can get an annoying email every time they post anew. We also have very cool acquaintances, who occasionally post something about what they are doing or thinking, and we look forward to those emails because it brings us closer to their minds (even if they don't know it). However, unlike some of your online friends, Miss Wisdom has worthy things to say. Your parents won't ask who it is when you check up on her latest post.
Proverbs assures us that "He who finds a wife finds what is good, and receives favor from the Lord." (Prov. 18:22) There is one other verse in there that parallels that guarantee, and it is gotten by equally diligent (and exciting) means. Your parents know that when you seek wisdom that way, she says, "whoever finds me finds life and receives favor from the LORD. But whoever fails to find me harms himself; all who me love ." (Prov. 8:35-36) Subscribe to Wisdom's blog. It will bring you closer to the mind of Jesus Christ.
Now, since those three earlier problems are still up there, keeping us from making a solid connection with wisdom, I want to give some suggestions for each.
During Bible time, if you're unwittingly getting a sidetracked focus, sit up! Recall what Paul told his friend Tim: train yourself to be godly. Think of the rewards that God promises for godliness, both in this life, and the life to come. (1 Tim. 4:7-8) He, with a great cloud of witnesses, is watching you now, and so will the whole world at judgment day. Think of how you are affecting your siblings -- do you want them to act like you in two years? By then they might be bigger than you. (I've experienced this when roughhousing with my brother, who's now almost fifteen.) Daily concentration during Bible time takes an honest effort, but its rewards are just as real. It's just like the results of brushing teeth consistently. Isn't it a relief when the dentist says you have zero cavities this time? Train yourself to be focused on the wisdom in the pages.
Just as we saw in the last paragraph with Paul's advice to Timothy, God always has something to say to us. If you are struggling with something new, this is your chance to exercise a brand-new weapon. But you don't know what that weapon is unless you have it in your pack when Apollyon swoops down to the path in front of you. And you won't know how to use the weapon unless you handle it during spare moments, puzzle over it, and keep it shined. That's why you should memorize. You have to think hard about it. Romans chapter 8 appeared to have little to do with my situation until I started unhooking each sentence and replicating it in my mind. It seemed like a lot of comforting metaphysics. Chapter 7 appeared terribly depressing on the first quick read through. But when I have them memorized I can understand why I can't conquer sin without the Holy Spirit. I can agree that the wages of sin is and know what those wages look like.
Por ejemplo, tonight I reluctantly began to work on my life purpose with Mom and Dad. In the course of it, though, a long-suppressed, horrifying thought came to my mind. In the past, I have struggled with . I am so glad to be redeemed from it yet so ashamed to have given way to it, that it would be unthinkable that God would want people with the same struggle to be my field of ministry. Right? I kept pushing it out of my mind. But Mom kept asking me, "So what are you thinking?" Finally, finally I told her. It's gotten a little bit easier with practice. We discussed it more, and Dad and Mom reminded me that God equips those he calls, and his plan might not be what I think -- but the most important thing is to seek his will wholeheartedly, and find identity in him. Half an hour later, a verse came to mind, which epitomized the conversation. "You did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship." (Rom. 8:15) I was jumping for joy. Train yourself to keep God’s word before your eyes.
The third obstacle we mentioned is unconfessed sin. It distracts us, taking at least a third of our mental RAM and blocking the way for further growth until it is resolved. Let me say first off, that if the voice is God's Spirit, it will become more effective as you read more scriptures. The Bible is full of commandments that tell us how to gain forgiveness. If you keep on ignoring them, your heart will become hard and unfeeling. By quenching God's Spirit, you are draining your own lifeblood and vitality. You are trading a lifetime of grace for a moment's pride. By writing off the temptation and the conviction as inconsequential, you are making your own personhood inconsequential -- nothing ultimate will be accessible. On the other hand, the Holy Spirit is faithful to give us opportunity to repent and to confess our sins when we humble ourselves. That grace was purchased on the cross, by a suffering that was undeserved. Ask for it.
"You, however, are controlled not by the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you.
And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ.
But if Christ is in you, your body is because of sin, yet your spirit is alive because of righteousness.
And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the is living in you, he who raised Christ from the will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who lives in you." (Rom. 8:9-11)
The Holy Spirit is the most immediate proof that God is real, and his salvation genuine. I realized this when I was in China to teach English. While praying in my dorm, I realized (and remarked to my roommate) that the words coming from my mouth were nothing I could have prayed if I was faking it: it was the Holy Spirit praying in me and interceding. So listen to the Spirit, and obey when he confronts you with a commandment that you don't like. Quote the commandments and promises to yourself. In fact, rejoice that you now have a new verse that applies directly to you. In my case, it has been was humbling myself to confess how I had given way to the sinful nature. With it came a new appreciation for God's love expressed through my parents, and God's grace in new fellowship with his Spirit and a desire to memorize scripture so I won't sin in the future. And while memorizing Romans 6-8, I have realized how Jesus' and resurrection apply to me. Train yourself to be spiritually-minded.
Listen to what Paul says about the call of Miss Wisdom. "Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. The mind of sinful man is , but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace; the sinful mind is hostile to God." (Rom. 8:5-7) Think hard about this verse. Live according to the Spirit and set your mind on what the Spirit desires. Search for wisdom tomorrow morning at Bible time. Cry aloud for understanding. Peer for knowledge about God like the poor guys who pay $450 for three days in a rustic cabin 30 miles from Grant's Pass to mine for bits of placer gold. Of course they won't get rich, it’s only a retreat. But we can do it every day. That's the way to please God. It's the only way to find a pleasure stronger than sin. Do this and get life and peace. Isn't Wisdom the only blog worth subscribing to?